Selena Gomez isn't afraid to share her date requirements with potential suitors

Selena Gomez proudly declares her freedom in her new single "Single Soon," and while she's open to a new relationship, all potential suitors should be prepared . In a new interview on SiriusXM's Hits 1, the "Only Murder in the Building" star revealed her dating requirements for anyone who wants to impress her enough to make her "single soon."

Although Gomez said she's "highly protective" about the new song, she said she's not actually that demanding — she just has some normal guidelines when it comes to dating. "I have standards, and I think I live in a world now where boys confuse standards with high maintenance," she said. "I'm not ashamed to say that I need X, Y and Z for you to be with me." She's not afraid to share those requirements with the world. "You have to be cool, man," she quipped, "and it's not like people think you're cool. You just have to be nice, make me laugh, and be nice to my family and the people around me."

Back in June, as seen in a TikTok video, Gomez proudly announced her single status to some football players who might meet her criteria - if she caught their attention. "They didn't hear me," she told the radio host. "They didn't care, so I said, 'Okay...' None of them cared."

Although her attempts to find a sporty boyfriend failed, Gomez has absolutely no problem being single and knows the right man will fit into her life when it happens. "I think everyone goes through a phase where they're like, 'Oh, it would be nice to have some company,' and I get it," she said. "But you know, I'm just enjoying where I'm at and I just want to be happy with myself so that whenever that person comes into my life, I can let them join me and not become so insecure." You know, I used to be like that. "

For now, Gomez is making the most of her single life, which will be reflected in her upcoming new music beyond "Single Soon." In another radio interview with Ryan Seacrest, the singer revealed that her long-awaited next album, which she jokingly calls SG3, won't contain any songs that will make you cry . “This is my first album without a sad song,” she said. "Just beautiful songs, very fun, energetic and pop-like. It fits the new version of what I'm going through and now I'm happy and feeling good."