You know some duos end up dating even though they seem to hate each other when they first meet. Friends bickering over obvious infatuations with each other, or people who need a bit of a connection to get a kick out of falling in love.
This pain is very common among certain zodiac signs, who almost always have enemies-to-lovers plot lines in their dating lives.
According to astrologer Stina Garbis, this tendency has a lot to do with their ruling planet, the planet that governs their overall lifestyle. If a sign is ruled by a warrior planet or a planet that seeks hidden truths, it stands to reason that their path to love may be rocky.
That said, some signs may have a lot of enemies-to-lovers storylines because they always see the good in people. If they meet someone who is a little abrasive around the edges, or someone who wants to argue or act moody, they will see right through their passionate, fuzzy heart and know they have a soft heart.
While enemies-lovers relationships don't always go smoothly, they're common classic occurrences and can be a whirlwind of fun. Here are the zodiac signs most likely to have this dynamic, according to astrologers.
Aries (March 21-April 19)
Ruled by Mars, Aries people have had numerous relationships with enemies and lovers, which makes them enjoy arguments and debates, or what they might call "passionate conversations."
"There's a saying that the best way to get an Aries interested in you is to fight them, which is why this fire sign fits this category so well," says Garbis. Whether it's a brawl at the bar or via text message A heated debate, Aries is most interested in someone making them a little angry.
According to Garbis, Aries will also show they like someone by getting into small fights, kind of like a playground bully having a crush. When in doubt, they'll resort to snarky jokes and snarky comebacks as a way of flirting—and they like having someone to talk back to.
"For Aries, intense text messages often turn into confessions of love, and face-to-face arguments quickly turn into hookups," Garbis says. Before they know it, the person they're arguing with suddenly becomes theirs. companion.
Scorpio (October 23rd - November 21st)
As a sign ruled by intuitive Pluto, Scorpios are always on the lookout for someone's darker side. They have a built-in bullshit detector and they value loyalty and honesty above all else, so they are known to develop a deep dislike for certain people.
This water sign can also seem a bit mean and guarded when you first meet them, which can put them at odds with matches on dating apps and friend groups. "They seemed a little somber and mysterious at first," Garbis said. "It makes you question, 'Do they like me or hate me?'"
However, as they become more comfortable, Scorpio's hard exterior begins to crack, and they eventually let down their walls. This salty aversion might turn into interest, and as their conversation grows, maybe even love. Garbis said that once they are with an SO, they become the most loving companion a person can have.
After much thought of "will they or won't they?" Scorpios will almost always end up with someone they think they won't like.
Pisces (February 19-March 20)
Generally speaking, sweet and dreamy Pisces are naturally attracted to people who are sarcastic, darkly poetic, and even a little rude. Of course, that person will often reject them or refuse to be just friends, but this water sign refuses to give up.
"Pisces are very good at turning their 'enemy' into a kind, loving partner," Garbis says. They have a deep intuition that can see through the toughest exteriors, so they know when someone is truly worth their time and energy, even if the road to the relationship is rocky.
Over time, all enemies' energy fades away and they eventually become best friends/lovers. If they get married, Pisces friends will share the ups and downs of their journey, but it's all in good fun.
source:
Stina Garbis, astrologer
